What is a doula..?
Death is not a medical event that went wrong. It is the ending of a life, and it deserves to be met with the same quality of presence, care, and attention that we'd want for any other significant human experience.
That's what an end of life doula offers.
In-Person End-of-Life Support
My in-person work is with people who are actively dying, as well as those living with a life-limiting illness, and may involve supporting the families and caregivers who love them. What I bring to that space is steadiness, a grounded, unhurried presence that doesn't need death or dying to be anything other than what it is. I can sit vigil, offer companionship, help create an environment that feels meaningful rather than clinical, and tend to the practical and emotional needs of those who are supporting someone through their final days. An important and often overlooked part of this work is supporting the supporters. The people doing the caring—partners, children, siblings, close friends—are carrying something enormous, often without adequate acknowledgement or guidance. I consider it a privilege to be alongside them, too.
In-person services are currently available in London and the South-East. Rates are discussed on a case-by-case basis. Get in touch to talk about what you need.
Distance Support for Caregivers
If you are supporting someone who is dying and you're not sure how to do it—practically, emotionally, or both—this is for you. You don't need to be in crisis to reach out. Many people get in touch simply because they want a steady, knowledgeable presence on the other end of the phone: someone who has been here before and can help them feel less alone in unfamiliar territory.
Distance support is available wherever you are. Get in touch to talk about what's happening and how I might help.
I am a proud member of End of Life Doula UK, and had the great pleasure of training with Living Well Dying Well, who offer the only certified End of Life Doula training programme in the UK. If you’re in the US and would like to work with a doula in-person, INELDA (the International End of Life Doula Association) will be able to help you.
“Having you be involved in my mothers final weeks was such a blessing. I feel so proud of how we as a family moved through that time. You showed us how to be present to something so difficult and painful with so much grace and compassion. I never would have imagined that I’d call my mothers death beautiful, but it was.” -BC
“I want to share how truly grateful I am for Chloe’s incredible support during one of the most difficult times of our lives. From the very beginning, Chloe was not only a source of immense knowledge and guidance but also a comforting and compassionate presence. She helped both my mum and me navigate the final stages of Mum’s life with dignity, respect, and gentle understanding. Chloe created an environment where Mum felt heard, safe, and cared for, and where I felt supported and never alone. Chloe’s kindness, wisdom, and calm strength were inspirational. She helped me face the practical and emotional realities of saying goodbye, and her support continued even after Mum’s passing, giving me the tools and reassurance I needed to begin grieving and healing. I can’t imagine having gone through this journey without her. Chloe has a rare gift for making the most painful moments more bearable, and I will forever be thankful for the difference she made in our lives.” -SL
“I got in touch with Chloe when my father chose to move into end of life care due to a serious heart and kidney condition. We knew he didn’t have many days to live, and Chloe’s advice and support was invaluable and incredible; she guided us, as a family, to create a beautiful and meaningful space for us all, including the hospital staff. Thanks to Chloe's gentle guidance, the space became openly joyful, ceremonial and full of storytelling. Evidently, Chloe has a great depth of knowledge and experience. Light in step, she softly presented options and images for us to consider from ancient wisdoms, she also suggested very practical things that we could do such as bringing in colour, scents, photographs and important personal pieces to accompany our dad on his next journey.
We were so very fortunate to have a week with dad and Chloe absolutely helped us make the most of that time. For those who may have a longer time to accompany their loved ones, I am certain Chloe would be a wonderful, wonderful person to lean on and wish for guidance from. Thank you once again Chloe from all our family. What blessings you helped bring to us.” -JO
“Chloe came to us to help support my elderly parents. They had always been reluctant to allow help or support of any sort into their home and lives but Chloe’s gentle and compassionate nature soon meant that they welcomed her in and looked forward to her visits, especially Dad once Mum had died. He came to rely on her support, advice and friendship. As did I - her approach to life and death is refreshing and has greatly helped me.
Chloe was there for both my parents in their final days. Dad’s illness meant he had a particularly hard time and was scared and in pain. Chloe worked with us and our full time carer to help reassure him - her gentleness and caring nature at that time was particularly evident. Palliative care and preparing for the end of your and your loved ones life in this country has a long, long way to go and I’m sure having more end of life Doulas like Chloe would be a massive step in the right direction.” -PD